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Does the Myers-Briggs personality assessment really tell you anything?

The Straight DopeWhile catching up on Cecil Adams’s The Straight Dope column recently, I found his explanation why the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is so damn famous and so damn useless.

Does the Myers-Briggs personality assessment really tell you anything?

The eHarmony Personality Profile (regular or Premium) uses the older Five Factor Model, not the MBTI.

(Cecil Adams’s nationally-syndicated column “The Straight Dope” answers reader-submitted questions about arcane and unusual topics. The column has been syndicated in 30 newspapers since 1973.)

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  • Fernando Ardenghi wrote

    The Myers-Briggs personality test is only an obsolete ipsative test, like the other famous ipsative test DISC. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DISC_assessment The Big5 inventory / Five Factor Model is a normative test, as the 16PF5. http: …

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What 27 levels of compatibility did eHarmony use for this (image)

wil kitteh yoose eharmonee agin?

Cat and Bird are not compatible

(icanhascheezburger.com, dated January 20)

From Carsonified: How eHarmony Kills the Romance With A/B Testing

Christine Brodigan (@tenaciouscb), online user-experience product designer, shows her hate of those early-morning “new match notifications”.

Match, Chemistry and a handful of others never shocked me with their emails (some of the usernames that men choose did). However, eHarmony stood out of the crowd for a few reasons:

  • rapid-fire morning messages, usually between 4 and 8 in a row (like I was under fire from the “matchmaking tool”)
  • radically different branded email templates
  • really bad subject lines, all different, but with the same purpose

Beginning January 4, 2010, my inbox filled with an even more challenging set of differing subject lines. More challenging because the messaging was all over the place. Was I a user more interested in “activities,” “spark,” “unique,” “common,” or greatness? I felt like it was eHarmony having the problem ordering off a menu of men and not me. I wanted simple and given to me straight up.

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OkCupid is now on the iPhone; eHarmony is …, well, will it ever be?

OkCupid iPhone AppIt was all worth the wait for OkCupid members. The new OkCupid iPhone App (review by reader Dave Evans) brings a lot of the site’s essential functions to the device.

  • Mail and messaging
  • Member search
  • Take and upload photos from the iPhone
  • “Who has viewed me” list
  • OkCupid’s never-ending “Improve matches” quiz

OkCupid focused on the feature set that members will most often use while on the go. The app is a free download from the Apple App Store.

When Match.com’s iPhone app came out six months ago, SingleGuyInNC said that eHarmony, with its drawn-out Guided Communication process and where members cannot search for people that are nearby and “available”, will never really work as a mobile app. Do you agree with him?

“Did I give eHarmony $100 to match me up with a bunch of people that I’ll never be able to talk to?”

(Republished in entirety with permission from johnsmith3487, dated October 7, 2009. Thanks, John!)

Dafearon wrote:

johnsmith3487 wrote,

“I don’t understand why there is so little activity among my matches. … Did I give eHarmony $100 to match me up with a bunch of people that I’ll never be able to talk to?”

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  • ScottK wrote

    KT: Make *SURE* you report that Match to eHarmony!!! You can report the Match to eHarmony by sending an email to: matchconcerns@eharmony.com You very well may save another user some heartache and a lot of money! …

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When is it time to ask for more?

Hello,

I have been talking to this young lady for about 30 days now . When and how should I move the relationship along? I am digging her like I was a undertaker.

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  • Alan wrote

    I think I'm probably prone to fall into the "moves too fast category". I personally don't want to spend 6 months of my life, or even one for that matter, communicating with someone only to meet them and determine that I have no interest. So I exchange a couple of OC messages and then ask for the pho …

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