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To Disclose or not to Disclose: Strategies for an Eharmony User with a Disability?

Posted by rquan on 22 June 2009 under How-tos § Opinion § Tips · Comments (10)

I have a disability. I am not looking for someone disabled or who has the same disability though I would not reject them for that reason. Now, my question is, as an otherwise typical user of Eharmony, (looking for a partner), should I disclose a disability? Where should this be done? Is honesty the best policy or is it going to be a deal breaker? What other suggestions can you offer for a person who is disabled in being able to attract and not scare away potential matches? Thanks.

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  • rquan wrote

    Well, I do appreciate the advice given here. Though it is disappointing to see that the most productive path would be not to disclose, the reality is that this is probably closer to a reflection of what society can handle. I have disclosed for the past 8 days or so. I've even modified my profile …

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