Thanks for all the great eharmony info. I found a lot of helpful things here.
I have a question. I get lots of matches, which is great, but I am not sure how to best contact ones I like. I have been emailing people messages saying
“I think your profile is great. You look cool…… so do you want to grab coffee sometime? Or do ?”
I feel like the eharmony questions and stuff is silly. I will know in 30mins over coffee if someone is a good ‘match’ why should I waste both our time with childish questions from drop boxes?
I agree with snowbunny. The blanket greeting (without mentioning anything personal about the woman) is a turn-off. If you change your wording how snowbunny pointed out, you're guaranteed to get better responses. Good luck to ya'! :) …
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