When you’re in the exchanging Must-Haves and Can’t-Stands stage, a “Change Selection” button offers you to customise your lists for that match. For example, you might replace “Artistry” with “Sociability” since he seems fine though he already told you he hates art.
You’re wrong: Changing your list also changes it for all previous matches.
All your previous matches on or beyond that stage will see the new list. The introverted ones will see “Sociability: I must have a partner who loves to socialize with lots of different people” and may close you right away. Bad, eHarmony!
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