Are matches closing you out saying “I don’t think our Must Haves and Can’t Stands fit”? Isn’t it frustrating? Have you had enough? Do you want to know Which Must Haves and Can’t Stands are most likely to persuade matches to move to the next communication stage? Read on, dear friend.
On 19 July 2004, Online Dating Magazine reported the top ten Must Haves and top ten Can’t Stands chosen by men and by women who are registered in eHarmony.1 These are the most common Must Haves and Can’t Stands. Now we know what we have to do: Simply apply the list of the opposite sex in your Must Haves and Can’t Stands settings, and we’re set! No more rejections!
Note: For your clicking convenience, we sorted these in the same order as onscreen.
Men “Must Haves”
- Chemistry
- Communicator
- Sense of Humor
- Emotionally Healthy
- Strong Character
- Kindness
- Affectionate
- Loyal
- Family Life
- Responsible
Men “Can’t Stand”
- Lying
- Infidelity
- Rudeness
- Mean Spirited
- Cheating
- Drugs
- Anger
- Depression
- Racist
- Poor Grooming
Women “Must Have’s”
- Chemistry
- Communicator
- Sense of Humor
- Emotionally Healthy
- Strong Character
- Kindness
- Affectionate
- Loyal
- Family Life
- Passionate
Women “Can’t Stand”
- Lying
- Infidelity
- Cheating
- Depression
- Mean Spirited
- Rudeness
- Drugs
- Poor Grooming
- Racist
- Anger
Good luck, and invite us to the wedding!
(Use at your own risk. eHarmony Blog is not responsible for any direct or indirect consequences of copying these lists into one’s eHarmony settings.)
Sharon
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