Related to: When do you move from online communication to the phone, on the eHarmony Advice discussion board, mystikchik wrote,
ess wrote:
How soon into the Open communicating on EH should you either ask for the person phone number, offer your phone number or ask to meet the person out. I don’t want to come across as needy or in a hurry. Let me know what you think. Thanks
If you met an amazingly cute guy at your local food market check out line and you struck up a conversation and he is about to leave would you ask for his phone number or offer your phone number? I would for sure. Why wait? While you wait some other chick is going to grab your guy and the next thing you know they will be featured in an e harmony ad getting married. There is nothing needy about aggressively going after some guy you like. What’s with the worry about the hurry for? Where did you get the idea that there is some sort of speed control in place when it comes to dating a guy.
The sooner you go out with the dude the sooner you will know whether he is prince charming material or just a wasted night. Fooling around sending goofy e mails back and forth will not get you one bit closer to finding out whether there is any chemisty between you.
Too many chicks here wait and wait and wait all hung up on rules that don’t matter one bit. You wait and you give all the other e harmony chicks (who don’t give a damn if they look needy or seem in a hurry) a chance to get first crack at the guy. Dumb!!!!!
mystikchik is a regular of the eH Advice boards and her ideas make awful sense.
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