eHarmony revealed recently What Women Want from the men in eHarmony. Therefore, the smart thing to do is to EXPLICITLY tell your matches you have what they want. Don’t you think that would increase your chances of a response?
So what are eHarmony women looking for in a man?
The ‘things your friends say about you’ selections are not enough. Merely saying “I’m honest,” is only slightly better, because it sounds like a sales pitch. The best: state your case with a story or an example.
“Affectionate” / “Warm”
Make sure your profile says, in a few words, that you are able to demonstrate or say your thoughts and feelings to your loved ones.
Hold on, is that to your loved ones, or to your future partner? If you ask me, I don’t like referring to hypothetical people in my profile. It makes me seem that all my life focus is cocked and ready to fire upon a woman who isn’t even there yet. Do you see the tension? Instead, I already have loved ones, and I love them — if a special someone comes along, great, but no big deal.
“Honesty”
“Almost every single woman in eHarmony (and in the world at large) has been lied to by a man they loved.” If you say you’re looking for honesty, or you can’t stand lying, or integrity is important to you, then you instantly top the charts, man.
Consistent among women’s top can’t stands are: Lying, Infidelity and Cheating. Men are slimy bastards. Your task is clear: you have to say you’re honest.
“Funny”
Make your profile FUNNY and you will find more women initiating contact with you. Emoticons are hardly enough. Women want a good time when they are with their partner. Be sure to demonstrate that they will have one.
“Open Communication” / “Easy to talk to”
This is a follow-up to “affectionate.” If you say that open communication is crucial, or show signs of loyalty, or you prefer a peaceful compromise, boy, you’re above many other profiles she has seen.
Women want to be with someone they can be intimate with their feelings and who would listen. Yeah, nothing new here. State it in your profile, anyway.
“Confident”
The magic word, “confident,” is another generic crowd-pleaser. Be sure to put it in!
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