Tips and tricks: Be sure to click “do not renew”

(One of our readers, Stacey, writes:)

Word to the wise: Be sure you have checked off all the appropriate boxes in your eharmony Settings window if you don’t want to continue your subscription. If not, they will charge your credit card or bank account … and then refuse to refund your money when you call to tell them that you didn’t want to renew your subscription.

Apparently part of the information that they bombard you with when you first sign up (in addition to the brutal personality questionnaire) is a notice that you have basically agreed to automatically renew your subscription … unless you go into the Settings window and make sure to check the right boxes. (There’s a do not renew option, along with a cancel my subscription option.)

That’s fine and dandy. But you’d think they’d at least send you an e-mail alert BEFORE renewing your subscription and asking you if you want to renew, instead of sending the e-mail AFTER they have charged your credit card. To me, that would be a much more forthcoming way to do business, particularly since they bombard you with e-mail about every other little thing. (It really annoying to get a message every time someone matches your personality profile, or there’s a special on memberships, or someone responds to your questions.)

So just beware of this issue, or you will be charged and they will unequivocally refuse to refund your money.

(Thanks, Stacey!)

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Comments 12

  1. Mary Finnerty wrote:

    I registered on April 6, 2008 at Eharmony and I’m looking to Cancel my membership and get a Full Refund.
    Please Advise

    Posted 10 Apr 2008 at 4:23 pm
  2. eHarmony Blog wrote:

    Mary Finnerty, see How to cancel eHarmony.

    Posted 11 Apr 2008 at 11:19 am
  3. Marjatta Luukas wrote:

    Please confirm my cancellation. Thank you.

    Posted 08 Jun 2008 at 10:43 am
  4. http://godallowsyouturns.blogspot.com/ wrote:

    Does anyone know what happens to your profile after your membership expires? I mean, does it just sit there for any match you ever received to see forever?

    Posted 11 Jun 2008 at 11:20 am
  5. SingleGuyInNC wrote:

    After it expires, it is still accessible to whoever you are matched to.

    Where do you think all those matches that never respond to communication come from (expired memberships that don’t turn matching off)? :)

    I had matches I’ve closed months ago come up in the who’s viewed me, so, even closed matches can still see your profile.

    Posted 11 Jun 2008 at 5:37 pm
  6. http://godallowsyouturns.blogspot.com/ wrote:

    Oh! I knew it! You have to actually go in and turn matching off sometime before your subscription is done? Tricky tricky.

    I’ve had matching turned off for a month now. I signed up for three months, and after a month, it felt like too much work. There were just too many matches, and I always suspected over half of those matches were expired memberships. I did luck out though, in that the few that I initiated conversation with did reply back to me. Guess I picked the lucky active ones!

    Anyone else feel like that? Like it’s more trouble than it’s worth? I’m actively emailing two guys that I think are pretty decent, but who knows.

    Oh, random poll then (maybe I should set this up on this blog, but probably can’t figure it out), what’s the average time you spend in OC before you initiate meeting outside, or taking it to a level beyond eH? And who usually does that?

    -maxi

    Posted 12 Jun 2008 at 6:43 am
  7. Anonymous wrote:

    Maxi, look at the poll for January 2008.

    Posted 12 Jun 2008 at 9:08 pm
  8. Jetty wrote:

    don't have the checkbox – only "cancel membership" is available. Is it because I signed up for the cheapest promotion – 9.95 for one month?

    Posted 19 Nov 2008 at 11:01 am
  9. Ron wrote:

    Jetty, the instructions for turning off auto-renewal are in the notes of the promotional codes page.

    Ron

    Posted 21 Nov 2008 at 1:56 pm
  10. SD_John wrote:

    The first time I used eHarmony, about 4 years ago, they charged me to renew and refused to refund. No problem… my credit card company was happy to reverse the charge for me! :-D

    I just followed the tip to put in a valid but dead VISA number.

    Posted 28 Mar 2009 at 10:11 am
  11. linda hurt wrote:

    I have email several times and down the right thing
    of cancellation and eharmony will not cancel I have now
    forced of getting legal help to cancel eharmony
    I do appreciate for your own benefit to cancel my
    subscription NOW Linda

    Posted 01 Jun 2009 at 6:16 am
  12. eharmonyblog wrote:

    For our benefit? Is that a threat, Linda? What do you mean by this?

    Posted 01 Jun 2009 at 6:34 am

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