Our eHarmony trick for today is not for everyone. Obviously — because if everyone did this trick then no one will communicate with anybody.
Since we’re left to our own devices and eHarmony’s company policy is to never reveal if our match is active or not, what if we can somehow see whether this member actually came in and viewed our profile, at least once? Then we can save an awful lot of time reviewing profiles of members who don’t even log in.
Sure we can! Here’s how:

On this screenshot I have matches 1, 2 and 3. See for yourself if you agree with us regarding their differences:
- Match 1 is an untouched match — neither the match or I have viewed each other.
- Match 2 is a viewed match — the other person has viewed me! It’s not a dead account!
- Match 3 is a viewed match — I have viewed them!
Today’s trick is, let your match view you first. Don’t view matches in the “Introduction” stage!
- If your match turns into a “1 2 3 4 OPEN”, then you know that they logged in and looked at your profile.
- If your match turns into a “1 2 3 4 OPEN” within a couple of days after you were matched, then the person is absolutely fresh and more likely a paying member.
I didn’t do this trick when I paid for the service last year. Hmph, the less people who know this trick the better it works.
If you find this trick useful, leave us a comment….

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