When eHarmony offers you this. . .
. . . let us give you this advice:
Leave it alone!
Why? If you send this message, here is what happens.
- The other member receives an email along the lines of, “Congratulations! Mary reviewed your profile and wants to get to know you better. Pay up now to reply to her. She could be your soulmate who will love you and accept who you are for the rest of your freaking life! And she’s waiting. . . do something!”
- If he DOES pay up and joins the service and replies, you ALSO NEED TO PAY UP to read his response. The site didn’t tell you this, huh? If you wont join anyway, then you got nothing and wasted the guy’s money and time.
So, please, dear reader, for goodness’ sake, keep away from this offer. It just bothers people and gives members false hope. Like those pokes and winks and woos on other sites. It’s useless anyway for you — do you know what I mean?
Nevertheless, if you do intend to join, then JOIN FIRST so you can see the photos and then send the questions. Would you rest better assured that members who send you messages or questions can actually read your replies — and not victims of an eH gimmick? Do you agree that this is fair?
Only one guy is most likely to gain from this “send your initial questions for FREE” — can you guess who he is? 
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