Niks’s first eHarmony date

In “Life is a Transition,” Niks wrote:

This got me thinking, that though I should maintain my standards, I could probably loosen up a bit on the jaws of death that usually protect me from dating. So, I went on this date….

There were 2 defining moments in the night, when I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that this would not work out:

1) After the dinner portion of our meal, at The Cheesecake Factory, the waitress asks if “we’ve saved room for the best part” and he says no. WHAT??!?!? We are at the Cheesecake factory, and this bucko has decided to forgo the cheesecake? Is this some kind of sick joke?!?!?! At this point, the waitress looks at me, and politely say,”no thank you.” That’s right, if you can hold out on desert, so can I.

2) As we are rating the previews for the movie, the preview for Napoleon’s latest movie came on, and I’m thinking this movie looks hilarious (even though it’s from the Director of Old School), and he gives it a thumbs down…ooooooo…this might not work out. I was getting the zero-cussing-allowed-in-these-ears vibe (not that there’s anything wrong with that…but, it severely limits the movie options…) and it turns out that’s deal breaker for me.

So, in summary, if he calls me, I have a whole speech planned to let him down easy. It was a nice night…good conversation…not enough in common…yadda, yadda, yadda.

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Read also Nik’s post eFastTrack Part 1

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