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This is the standard “close communication” message:

One of the hardest things about any new relationship is deciding when or if you should continue forward in a relationship.

On «date and time» Pacific Time Jan chose to permanently close communication with you for the following reason(s):

• «List of reasons»

One of the hardest things about any new relationship is deciding when or if you should continue forward in a relationship.

We believe it is important to give both sides of a match the opportunity to send a message during the close process.

If you would like to reply to Jan now, click on Send Final Message. To return to your Closed Matches click Cancel.

And yeah, the choices for the final message are crazy, too:

Choose one or more replies from the following list. These will be sent to Jan. If you do not wish to respond at this time, select the Cancel button. You may send a reply at a later time.(choose as many as apply)

[ ] I have now posted my photo and when it is approved it should be available to you.
[ ] I have completed all my Match Profile questions.
[ ] Good luck with your search.
[ ] I really felt that we had potential. I’d like you to reconsider.
[ ] I think if we met, you might have different feelings about who I am.

Select the Send Final Message button to deliver your message to Jan. Only Jan has the option of re-opening this match.

If you send a reply, this match will automatically be moved to your Closed Matches pages (if you have not moved it there already).