If you do not have a pay pal account…get one. With a pay pal account, you can set up secure cards that you control. In general they are one-use cards. So if you sign up and eharmony or anyone else attempts to use the card a second time, it gets declined because it was used one time. If you want a multi-use card for a service (netflix for example), set up a multi-use card. It has a 24-month expiration and you can go into paypal and cancel it at any time. No time during this is your bank account information stored at the vendor so you don’t have to risk them charging you when you don’t want or having to cancel your credit card to get a service to stop.

This is not an ad for paypal but would end people’s nightmares about auto renewal or companies having your credit cards.

Also please know that you can contact your bank or credit card to have these charges stopped.

You also cannot state that you don’t wont contact with matches with no photo’s.
For me no Photo means you don’t really take the site seriously.
No on site contact info is really a no no these days.

I have not seen one cent from eHarmony or anyone else from posting on here. They _SHOULD_ be paying me or give me a free subscription but that’s not going to happen. I’ve had to pay hundreds of dollars for the “privilege” of using their service and 3+ years later, I’m still single.

All the time that I have put into writing articles and commenting comes out of the sheer frustration of not having success. Besides, what else is there to do when most of your matches don’t respond to communication?

Maybe one of these days I’ll drop the pseudonym but until I’m totally done using their service, it stays.

Joe, not only will we accept your challenge to publish your comment, we will even invite you to write and submit articles which we will publish unedited. If all goes well, another Joe will come and comment on your article. Oh, and we’ll publish his comment, too, unless he’s selling ebooks or pills or something.

The profiles I have received have been completely fake – or at least that is my theory. Of the 400+ profiles sent to me – fewer than 40 have even “looked” at me in the last year. Do that many men really pay handsomely for a site they never use? My guess is no.

Of the 400+ profiles sent to me – 80% have no photos – and I have never once received a photo after asking for one from any profile.

Of the 400+ profiles sent to me – I have met face to face with 2 “gentlemen” over the course of a year. One of them told me within five minutes of meeting that he did not live anywhere near where his profile said he did, and that if we were ever seen in public together we could not tell anyone how we met or why we were together – my guess is MARRIED! The second “gentleman,” get this, one of his profile pics was actually a cropped pic listed in the sex offender registry for the State of Maryland! The reason I know is that I routinely peruse those sites for local sex offenders (I have kids!). By the way, he insisted on praying out loud – very loud – over dinner.

Total, complete scam!

Stranger yet, eharmony “never matches you more than once” so my matches from 3 years ago are still there but I can’t communicate with them.

Let me give you a trick so you never have to deal with eHarmony or any other site auto renewing on you. Never use your credit/Debit card. What you need to do is get paypal credit card plugin. It allows you to set up virtual cards that take funds from your debit card. To eHarmony, its a credit card. The card has a one-time use (unless you set it as multi-use) so they can only hit you one time. Also, you can go into paypal and close down cards at will.

Simple way of ensuring no one automatically hits your card on a recurring basis.

Did you report this to them? Did they fix it right away?

Dudley