How NOT to give commissions when subscribing to eHarmony

Must ... not ... click ...Do you find it weird that, in most websites, each occurrence of the word “eHarmony” or “Free Communication Weekend” is always a clickable link?

That’s because promoting online dating sites is a large and lucrative industry. Wherever you find text like these, even in some news sites, the links are rigged so these sites get a commission from $20 to $65 for each sale that eHarmony makes.

It’s a good source of income.

Look at the table of payouts, as of June 2009.

It’s no wonder some of these sites have lengthy glowing reviews about eHarmony.

FACT: The only place ever you need to click a link to receive an eHarmony discount are inside eHarmony’s periodic “Exclusive Offer” emails. We’re furious because hundreds of sites out there trick the public.

  • The referral click is saved on your browser in a cookie. Without intervention, your browser remembers the click for 30 or 45 days.
  • When a sale is made, eHarmony grants the promoting site the commission if eHarmony detects such a remembered click.
  • eHarmony remembers only the last click prior to the sale, so clicking another site’s promotional link makes it forget the previous one.
  • This explains why many sites recommend the pricier 6-month or 12-month plan.
  • Sales from automatic renewals are not paid commissions.
  • There is no “Opt-out” button to this. :(

How NOT to give out commissions

Here is a brief tutorial to stop giving a site the commission when buying an eHarmony subscription. One reason could be because the site tricked you to clicking their link.

The Easy way: Replace it with one of a search engine

The easiest way is to replace the tracking cookie with that of a site you do want to support. Those that come to mind are search engines.

  1. Search your favorite search engine (Google, Yahoo, Bing (MSN), Ask, etc.) for the term “eHarmony”.
  2. Click the eHarmony “sponsored link”.
  3. You’re done!

Search engines don’t receive commissions, but the more clicks the eHarmony ads on search engine results receive, the more eHarmony pays to advertise on the search engine.

The Hard way: Remove the cookie from your browser.

Here are the step-by-step instructions for removing this cookie.

Internet Explorer 6, 7 or 8

  1. Open the Tools menu, then click Internet Options.
  2. Under “Browsing History” click Settings.
  3. Click “View Files”
  4. On the window that opens, search for a file named “cookie:username@eharmony”, where username is your Windows username.
  5. Delete that file

Mozilla Firefox 3

  1. Open the Tools menu, then click Options.
  2. Under “Privacy” click Cookies.
  3. Click “View Cookies”
  4. On the window that opens, search for a cookie named “eh_eff_tracking” from the site “eharmony.com”
  5. Delete that cookie

Google Chrome

  1. Open the Settings menu (it looks like a wrench), then click Options
  2. Click “Under the Hood” and under “Privacy” and “Cookies settings”, click “Show Cookies”

  3. On the Search box, type “eharmony”
  4. Delete the cookie named “eh_aff_tracking”

You may delete all the other eHarmony cookies, too, if you like. They are no help to members, anyway.

With the cookie gone, you can now go ahead and buy a subscription.

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    1. From $13.28/month (78% off) eHarmony Promotional Codes for Sept 2009 • eHarmony Blog on 29 Sep 2009 at 9:38 pm

      [...] Did you click a “click here to get a eHarmony discount” link on a website somewhere earlier today? … or in the last 45 days? No discount came out, right? If you did, then THAT website will get a $40-$65 commission if you subscribe using any of the codes below. Help us stop giving trickster sites an unfair commission. [...]

    Comments 7

    1. Annie wrote:

      So, I joined eharmony and hoped that with the free communication weekend I would recieve some extra matches. I have only recieved 13 matches and none of them live within 45 minutes away. I am an above average attractive woman, physically fit and look ten years younger than my age. Of COURSE the homeliest match is the first one to contact me. Ugh. He looks like a toad and I am sorry if that sounds shallow, but please! So far, I am disappointed. I did use a code so I got three months for the price of one. I was hoping I might meet a match on here, but the way it looks right now I may have wasted my money. There has to be SOME physical attraction…at least for me.

      Posted 31 Dec 2009 at 12:28 pm
    2. CVS wrote:

      Annie I hope you wake up one day looking truly like a toad. You will get what you deserve, and with your attitude towards people, you can be sure of that!

      Posted 31 Dec 2009 at 9:04 pm
    3. Annie wrote:

      CVS,
      Why would you wish ill on others? Talk about attitude toward people!

      Posted 01 Jan 2010 at 7:50 am
    4. CVS wrote:

      Annie, let me ask: besides being conceited, are you selfish and self-centered, too?

      Just as you’re disgusted when a person takes interest in you, do you realize how many more people around you are disappointed at you and who you are and what you do?

      Posted 01 Jan 2010 at 8:06 am
    5. annoymous1 wrote:

      She sounds no different than some of the men on eHarmony who wouldn’t give me a second look when I was there. In all honesty eHarmony among other things does not take chemistry and interests into account. The reason some of this goes on is because of Hollywood and the ideal that a man or women have to look a certain way. Maybe she will find someone who is as good looking a man as she is a women. But, you know looks change with age and health problems. I always thought that women were a little less shallow. On the other hand a lot of women may feel that in today’s society looks are their major selling point which is too bad.

      Posted 01 Jan 2010 at 8:20 am
    6. CVS wrote:

      Online dating site for the conceited:

      beautifulpeople.com
      darwindating.com
      richorbeautiful.com
      dreammatches.com

      Posted 01 Jan 2010 at 8:46 am
    7. annoymous1 wrote:

      Sounds like a bunch of winners. But there are also date sites for Big Beautiful People whatever. One groups assets are another group liabilities.

      Posted 01 Jan 2010 at 10:00 am

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