I have been a member for around 3 months since April 15, 2009. I have Rely ID and my credit paid for my services. After 3 months EHarmony decided to close my account. I got the message today. It was very vague and did not tell me why. The language they used about violation of user terms, lying about age, marriage so forth which I haven’t done. I think the reason they are doing this is because they have not been able to find a lot of matches for me unless they go out of state. They have mishandled some of my matches and have matched me up with guys I felt I had little in common and some of them seem shallow. I relate some of these concerns and they would reassure that they would be able to find someone for me. But, all a sudden out of the blue they have closed out my account. If I do not get a reason and they reinstate me I am filing a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. In the almost three months I was there there were only two I got to open communication with. One of them they closed him out without my consent because I express concerns about him and later re-open when I requested it. By that time he had lost interest. It was a mistake for me to do, their Risk Management Team did that. I could go on. I thought though that they were an upscale ethical service. But, I am beginning to think that they do not have the edge on ethics. Again, I am not sure why they closed me out. Maybe it is because I am in my sixties and I am in a smaller city and they think they will not be able to find anyone for me. But, I am really upset with them. I think I should be able to stay until my contract is over.