New on eHarmony: eHarmony deactivates inactive and closed accounts

A new site change that rolled out last week:

Screenshot of a deactivated account

eHarmony Advice Host Renee explains:

Yes, we have made a recent change on our site to improve our member’s experience. If a match is no longer active on our site and, therefore, no longer available, you will receive the message you pasted into your post. If your match decides to return at a later time, the information will once again become available to you.

Likewise, for your privacy, once your account is closed, your matches will be closed and your information will no longer be available to your matches. If you should choose to re-open your account, at any time, your information again would become available to your previous matches.

All the best,

-Renee

Yes, Some of these matches say ‘Introduction / Read “Closed” Message / last communication: N/A” which is impossible because a match has to look at a profile first before he or she could close it and that closure will be recorded as a “last communication”.

To clarify what Renee says, this screen shows up on TWO cases:

  1. Your match is “no longer active”.
  2. Your match has closed his or her account. This is different from closing one’s matches, letting an subscription expire, turning off auto-renew, canceling the subscription, blanking a profile, and so forth.

What’s notable about this is:

NEW: Closing an account is now the best and easiest way to get your privacy back from your matches. Your photos, profiles and previous communications will be hid from your matches. When you’re single again, call eHarmony up and re-open your account and things are restored.

  • The latest match I got with this status is dated November 19, 2008, three days ago. Aha eHarmony, you’re matching me with inactive people! [Correction: Oh sorry, this guy closed his account.]
  • Almost all of my oldest matches from several years back are still open and not closed like this. I guess eHarmony hasn’t deactivated or hasn’t finished deactivating all the old accounts yet. [Correction: Oh sorry, these people didn't close their accounts.]
  • eHarmony has realized that keeping a billion records active in its database is impractical. Before, the oldest members can still review the profiles and communications with their oldest matches anytime, because nothing is archived or deactivated.
  • Consequently, I won’t be able to read the past communications of these deactivated accounts. What if I need to review them?
  • What if a person registered again with the same profile or photo, and then was matched with me again? If eHarmony has deactivated the earlier profile, I won’t be able to tell.

NOTE: Closing ones account disables one’s login and password. You will have to contact them to re-open the account.

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Comments 6

  1. SingleGuyInNC wrote:

    “No longer active” = ???

    It would be nice to know what that metric is for inactivity.

    I already got one of these but this was with a match that:
    1) I just got today
    2) Was communicating with…

    It’s either a bug in the system or that has to be the quickest response they have had to close out a scammer (and someone else reported them). I’m waiting to see if I get a “we have closed this account because…” e-mail for them.

    Posted 26 Nov 2008 at 10:18 am
  2. luz aponte wrote:

    please close this account because i found my match

    Posted 03 Dec 2008 at 9:22 am
  3. Scott Grey wrote:

    Generosity? An end to dead matches? A response to a long-standing customer complaint?

    Or, perhaps, eHarmony’s solution to the losses they take when someone blasts fast track messages, “My subscription is ending today – feel free to email me at _______” instead of forcing members to resubscribe to continue ANY communication?

    Hmmm….

    Posted 05 Dec 2008 at 12:44 pm
  4. Uncle Fester wrote:

    I can assure everyone that I’ve been a “lapsed” member for well over a year now (and my brain is nearly back to normal… but that’s another story for another time)… and whenever I log into my account (every 30 to 60 days), I can see that they are continuing to match me quite often. I had cleared my profile and pictures, except for a statement as to when my membership ended. More than half of these new matches still sit at the “Introduction” status, indicating that they probably aren’t really there either. And unbelievably, despite my empty profile, my old eH email account continues to receive Photo Nudges and other attempts at communication.

    Posted 06 Dec 2008 at 5:02 pm
  5. garlicbreath42 wrote:

    This happened to me yesterday and I was wondering what the heck happened because I was in open coms with a gal and now POOF! She’s gone, just like that.

    At least tell us why they deactivated it, customer req, eH policy violation, etc…

    Posted 19 Apr 2010 at 8:29 pm
  6. Cathi Abramson wrote:

    Found my deactiviate

    Posted 18 Mar 2012 at 11:58 pm

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