Potential Scammer on eHarmony

I feel it necessary to bring to your attention the overwhelming possibility that the following individual has been, and is currently, engaging in fraudulent activities and is misleading online daters in the process of doing so. He claims to reside in the UK, London, Sheffield, Southern Yorkshire area, and has stated that he has a daughter living with maternal grandparents in Africa (Nigeria), due to his fiancee dying at childbirth. He also claims to work as a bio-pharmacist in the London area.

I recently had the chance to talk with him via Yahoo messenger, and he was very open about personal details right away. In addition, he asked me for my cell phone number, and when I did not provide it, he disconnected, informing me that without a cell number, he would not communicate with me.
For having a bachelor’s degree, you’d think he could write much better.

 4:01:13 PM    summers_lizzy: Hi there!

 4:01:22 PM    h_jason21: <ding>

 4:01:33 PM    h_jason21: hi

 4:01:42 PM    summers_lizzy: How are you?

 4:02:03 PM    h_jason21: im great

 4:02:05 PM    h_jason21: you ?

 4:02:15 PM    summers_lizzy: just fine

 4:02:21 PM    h_jason21: good

 4:02:29 PM    h_jason21: so where you from

 4:02:31 PM    h_jason21: ?

 4:02:41 PM    summers_lizzy: chicago, illionois

 4:02:53 PM    summers_lizzy: originally from seattle though

 4:03:01 PM    h_jason21: great

 4:03:03 PM    h_jason21: well

 4:03:18 PM    summers_lizzy: are you originally from the uk??

 4:03:20 PM    h_jason21: so how did you get my contact

 4:03:29 PM    h_jason21: sorry to ask mt dear

 4:03:30 PM    h_jason21: ?

 4:03:36 PM    h_jason21: pls

 4:03:54 PM    summers_lizzy: a friend of mine saw your post on site and forwarded me your info

 4:04:07 PM    summers_lizzy: she is pretty good at that

 4:04:11 PM    h_jason21: which site my dear ?

 4:04:45 PM    summers_lizzy: that was a month or so ago

 4:04:51 PM    summers_lizzy: i’d have to ask her

 4:05:05 PM    h_jason21: ok sure pls

 4:05:25 PM    h_jason21: im just been securiy conscious

 4:05:26 PM    summers_lizzy: so how are things over there

 4:05:39 PM    summers_lizzy: oh sure i don’t blame you

 4:06:00 PM    h_jason21: great

 4:06:10 PM    h_jason21: how old are you ?

 4:06:35 PM    summers_lizzy: 31

 4:06:51 PM    h_jason21: great

 4:06:56 PM    summers_lizzy: born the same year star wars came out;;)

 4:06:58 PM    h_jason21: what do u do for a living ?

 4:07:02 PM    summers_lizzy: you?

 4:07:12 PM    summers_lizzy: loan officer

 4:07:13 PM    h_jason21: im 32

 4:07:31 PM    summers_lizzy: what do you do?

 4:07:56 PM    h_jason21: im a bio-pahrmarcist

 4:08:56 PM    summers_lizzy: you work behind the scenes then

 4:09:05 PM    summers_lizzy: research

 4:09:15 PM    h_jason21: not really

 4:09:48 PM    h_jason21: i work in a office located in a factory where medication are produced

 4:10:10 PM    summers_lizzy: oh great

 4:10:17 PM    summers_lizzy: do you like it

 4:11:02 PM    summers_lizzy: are you there

 4:11:12 PM    h_jason21: yes im \

 4:11:13 PM    h_jason21: pls

 4:11:15 PM    h_jason21: brb

 4:12:21 PM    summers_lizzy: which area of the uk do you live in?

 4:12:54 PM    summers_lizzy: it is really nice here in Chicago, until the winter sets in of course

 4:13:27 PM    h_jason21: imlive in sheffield

 4:13:40 PM    h_jason21: southern yorkshire

 4:14:16 PM    summers_lizzy: i’ve always wanted to visit europe, but i just have not had the chance yet

 4:14:22 PM    summers_lizzy: how is the weather

 4:15:00 PM    h_jason21: wet

 4:15:14 PM    h_jason21: sowhatdo you do for a living ?

 4:15:34 PM    summers_lizzy: im a loan officer

 4:15:51 PM    h_jason21: you work with ?

 4:16:21 PM    summers_lizzy: i determine if people are eligible for loans and sometimes counsel those who are seeking advice on the subject

 4:17:12 PM    summers_lizzy: its a regional financial insititution, but id rather not give the name just yet, i hope you understand

 4:17:59 PM    summers_lizzy: i did work for the internal revenue service while i went to school

 4:18:25 PM    summers_lizzy: I like my current job much better now!:d

 4:18:40 PM    summers_lizzy: How long have you been in bio-pharm

 4:18:57 PM    h_jason21: allmy life

 4:19:06 PM    h_jason21: since i finished school

 4:19:19 PM    summers_lizzy: have you always lived in the uk

 4:19:37 PM    h_jason21: yes i have

 4:19:44 PM    h_jason21: cos of my job

 4:20:54 PM    summers_lizzy: one of my best friends married last year, and they are planning on flying to london the first week of october for their anniversary

 4:21:01 PM    summers_lizzy: hope the weather is good

 4:21:46 PM    summers_lizzy: what do you do for fun jason

 4:21:56 PM    h_jason21: yews it wil by then

 4:22:37 PM    summers_lizzy: i love your picture

 4:23:20 PM    summers_lizzy: do you have more

 4:23:28 PM    h_jason21: yes i do

 4:23:33 PM    h_jason21: do you ?

 4:24:04 PM    summers_lizzy: oh yes

 4:24:10 PM    summers_lizzy: are you intersted

 4:24:16 PM    summers_lizzy: interested

 4:24:20 PM    h_jason21: of course ?

 4:24:44 PM    summers_lizzy: so are you seeing anyone currently?

 4:25:21 PM    h_jason21: not really

 4:25:23 PM    h_jason21: you ?

 4:25:24 PM    summers_lizzy: i was recently

 4:25:34 PM    h_jason21: ok

 4:25:37 PM    h_jason21: still ?

 4:25:50 PM    summers_lizzy: it didn’t work out:(

 4:26:01 PM    h_jason21: im sorry

 4:26:03 PM    h_jason21: my dear

 4:26:14 PM    summers_lizzy: thanks

 4:26:25 PM    summers_lizzy: he obviously wasn’t the one

 4:26:32 PM    summers_lizzy: i just thought he was

 4:26:34 PM    h_jason21: ur welcome

 4:26:39 PM    h_jason21: i see

 4:27:14 PM    summers_lizzy: have you ever been married or engaged

 4:27:54 PM    h_jason21: yes

 4:28:02 PM    h_jason21: iwas engaged

 4:28:03 PM    h_jason21: b4

 4:28:05 PM    summers_lizzy: which?

 4:28:15 PM    h_jason21: engaged

 4:28:18 PM    summers_lizzy: im sorry it didn’t work out

 4:28:29 PM    h_jason21: and that relation we have an issue

 4:28:47 PM    summers_lizzy: do you mind sharing

 4:29:00 PM    h_jason21: she died

 4:29:06 PM    h_jason21: when the child was born

 4:29:28 PM    summers_lizzy: that is so sad, I am very sorry to hear that

 4:29:53 PM    summers_lizzy: so you have a son? daughter?

 4:30:03 PM    h_jason21: daughter

 4:30:43 PM    summers_lizzy: does she live with you?

 4:31:05 PM    h_jason21: no

 4:31:21 PM    h_jason21: she lives withher  biological grand parents

 4:31:25 PM    h_jason21: in africa

 4:31:35 PM    summers_lizzy: do you ever see her?

 4:32:10 PM    h_jason21: yes i,ll travelling tommorow

 4:32:19 PM    h_jason21: to see her

 4:32:33 PM    summers_lizzy: that’s wonderful! what’s her name?

 4:32:47 PM    h_jason21: dorothy

 4:33:11 PM    summers_lizzy: that’s a beautiful name

 4:33:20 PM    h_jason21: thx

 4:33:25 PM    summers_lizzy: i would like to have a daughter someday

 4:33:53 PM    summers_lizzy: do you have any desire to have more?

 4:33:59 PM    h_jason21: yes i woul dloike to have more children someday

 4:34:21 PM    summers_lizzy: what do you do for fun over there?

 4:34:52 PM    summers_lizzy: i like to go to the movies and spend time with my friends

 4:34:58 PM    h_jason21: me too

 4:35:01 PM    summers_lizzy: i also love to cook

 4:35:12 PM    h_jason21: me too

 4:35:15 PM    summers_lizzy: i almost went to culinary school

 4:35:21 PM    h_jason21: but ilove watching soccer

 4:35:47 PM    summers_lizzy: that has become much more popular over here latley

 4:35:56 PM    h_jason21: yes

 4:35:58 PM    h_jason21: it is

 4:36:04 PM    summers_lizzy: i’ve never been to a game though

 4:36:12 PM    h_jason21: really ?

 4:36:28 PM    summers_lizzy: i’ve always wanted to, but have not made one yet

 4:36:58 PM    summers_lizzy: maybe you could fly over to chicago and take me to a game;;)

 4:37:11 PM    summers_lizzy: haha

 4:37:12 PM    h_jason21: really ?

 4:37:33 PM    summers_lizzy: or, i could come over there

 4:37:50 PM    h_jason21: yes that would  be great

 4:37:56 PM    h_jason21: if you do

 4:38:12 PM    h_jason21: have a cell ?

 4:38:22 PM    summers_lizzy: have you ever been to the united states

 4:38:46 PM    h_jason21: yes

 4:38:47 PM    summers_lizzy: i just moved into my apartment and am switching carriers

 4:38:47 PM    h_jason21: once

 4:38:53 PM    h_jason21: ok

 4:39:01 PM    h_jason21: so do u have a phone ?

 4:39:22 PM    summers_lizzy: but i would love to talk to you in person, you seem to hae a great personality and sense of humor

 4:39:39 PM    h_jason21: u think so

 4:39:48 PM    h_jason21: uarenot answering me

 4:39:52 PM    h_jason21: yet

 4:40:00 PM    h_jason21: do u ahve a phone?

 4:40:16 PM    summers_lizzy: i was going to sign up for a phone, but the cell plan is more practical. i should have a number VERY soon

 4:40:53 PM    h_jason21: so u dont have a cell phone ?

 4:41:19 PM    summers_lizzy: not for a day or two

 4:41:49 PM    summers_lizzy: i just barely got my internet working here in my new place

 4:42:00 PM    h_jason21: ok when u get ur phone we can talk ok pls

 4:42:02 PM    h_jason21: im soory

 4:42:04 PM    h_jason21: i gat to go

 4:42:07 PM    h_jason21: bye

Name: Jason Henry

Email: h_jason21@yahoo.co.uk

Instant Messenger ID: h_jason21

This individual has been spotted on several other sites with varying information. He has stated that he is 32, but lists himself as being 35-42 in other profiles found on the internet.

I have learned that this person is currently in the process of “becoming
involved” with an American woman on Eharmony, who is currently planning a trip to London or Nigeria. I fear that her safety could be in serious jeopardy.

The following are links to his other dating profiles. A Google search first revealed him on a singles site for Muslims. Unfortunately, he deleted it when confronted about it.

ADDITIONAL PROFILES:

#1 – No picture, but very identical descriptions.

http://horseandcountrysingles.com/index.php?option=com_user&task=UserProfile&id=7857

#2 – Picture of model? Same description, cut and pasted. Claims to live in
     New York with different job title. 35 years of age

http://bigchurch.com/p/member.cgi?fromPage=&mid=1979148_66744

#3 – Most recent, birthdate of August 31, 1968. (Claims he’s 32 on IM)

http://www.datingsingles.no/search/profile.htm.php?sid=89t60wnse3_ivcheo3_0wn&LoginID=89e040g3gt

The following is the basic profile description as it appears on multiple
sites and profiles. Some details have been omitted, some changed.

Im 6ft tall and i like to meet pple and share experiences i hate lies,
betrayals etc but i like telling the truth and i love children too well im a lover of honesty,integrity,trust,truth and love i love to go out during the weekends,travel,play with pple,love to meet new friends so we can share experiences

Im 5ft 11” tall and i like to meet pple and share experiences i hate lies ,betrayals etc but i like telling the truth and i love children too well im a lover of honesty,integrity,trust,truth and love i love to go out during the weekends, chat on smilin face messenger and i,ll be h_jason21,travel,play with pple,love to meet new friends so we can share experiences

This individual demonstrates and possesses many of the disturbing characteristics described by previous victims and experts of online dating fraud. IF he is scamming vulnerable, unsuspecting women, then he needs to be found and apprehended as quickly as possible. Please forward to all appropriate agencies and organizations. I believe there is enough evidence to warrant a legitimate concern.

http://travel.state.gov/travel/cis_pa_tw/financial_scams/financial_scams_3155.html

I was not asked to send money, or to cash money orders, but I did not communicate with him long either. Has anyone else encountered this person?  If so, what was your experience? I have provided the following image, another can be found on the link to the last dating profile link, #3, above.  Unfortunately, I do not know if the pictures are actually his.

 

Jason Henry

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    Comments 1

    1. SingleGuyInNC wrote:

      This is pretty typical if you search around for other experiences. Creating a registry for them is pretty futile and even warning others about a specific identity, since they don’t have real identities and are continually changing and making up things as they go along. It usually doesn’t take long to expose them for who they are. I can usually spot them just by the profile and picture (they only have one picture, it tends to be small and cropped).

      The best thing to do is to learn how to spot them before investing a lot of time on them (unfortunately, the best way to learn is follow through and play their game for a while until they ask for money/etc), report them and move along.

      Posted 04 Oct 2008 at 9:50 am

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